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Dear Melissa offers Whole30 support, expert advice from Melissa Urban, and strategies for lasting food freedom and healthy Whole30 habits.


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May 2, 2016, 10:00 am
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Dear Melissa Replay: Can You Do the Whole30 Forever?

Can you do Whole30 for the rest of your life? This is one of the most popular questions we receive, and one of the...
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April 11, 2016, 10:00 am
  • Dear Melissa
  • Reintroduction

Dear Melissa: Everything I Reintroduce Seems to Hurt

Welcome to Dear Melissa, where I answer your questions about transitioning into or completing a Whole30, successfully sticking to your new healthy habits, and figuring out...
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April 4, 2016, 10:00 am
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  • Meal Planning Support and Prep
  • Troubleshooting

Dear Melissa: No, Really, How Many Meals?

Welcome to Dear Melissa, where I answer your questions about transitioning into or completing a Whole30, successfully sticking to your new healthy habits, and figuring out...
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March 10, 2016, 11:00 am
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  • Troubleshooting

Dear Melissa Replay: Day Ten Tantrums

You’re reading a Dear Melissa Replay, where we re-post some of the most popular entries in Melissa Urban’s regular Whole30 advice column. Dear Melissa...
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January 11, 2016, 11:00 am
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Dear Melissa: I Need a Calorie-Tracking Intervention

Dear Melissa, I know you caution against tracking food on the Whole30. However, I feel stressed and unsettled if I’m not tracking, even though...
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December 14, 2015, 11:00 am
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  • Socializing and Traveling

Dear Melissa: First Dates on the Whole30

Dear Melissa, Is it possible to go on a first date on the Whole30?  I hadn’t given it any thought until a guy asked...
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November 30, 2015, 11:00 am
  • Dear Melissa
  • Troubleshooting

Dear Melissa: I Quit Smoking, But Now I’m Overeating

Welcome to Dear Melissa, where I answer your questions about transitioning into or completing a Whole30, successfully sticking to your new healthy habits, and figuring out...
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November 9, 2015, 11:00 am
  • Dear Melissa
  • Food Freedom

Dear Melissa: What Adulty Beverage Is Best?

Welcome to Dear Melissa, where I answer your questions about transitioning into or completing a Whole30, successfully sticking to your new healthy habits, and figuring out...
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October 5, 2015, 3:20 pm
  • Dear Melissa
  • Mindset

Dear Melissa, Can I Intermittent Fast During my Whole30?

Welcome to Dear Melissa, where I answer your questions about transitioning into or completing a Whole30, successfully sticking to your new healthy habits, and figuring out...
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September 28, 2015, 10:00 am
  • Dear Melissa
  • Troubleshooting

Dear Melissa: Why Do I Still Want to Kill All the Things?

Welcome to Dear Melissa, where I answer your questions about transitioning into or completing a Whole30, successfully sticking to your new healthy habits, and figuring out...
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September 14, 2015, 10:00 am
  • Dear Melissa
  • Kids and Family
  • Troubleshooting

Dear Melissa: Grandparents Behaving Badly

Have the grandparents of the family been unsupportive of your Whole30 efforts with your kiddos? This is definitely an emotionally-charged issue, but Melissa Urban...
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September 8, 2015, 10:00 am
  • Dear Melissa
  • Kids and Family
  • Troubleshooting

Dear Melissa: My Whole30 Buddy is a Total Downer

Welcome to Dear Melissa, where I answer your questions about transitioning into or completing a Whole30, successfully sticking to your new healthy habits, and figuring out...
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August 3, 2015, 10:00 am
  • Dear Melissa
  • Mindset

Dear Melissa: Do I Always Have to Do the Whole30 By-the-Book?

Welcome to Dear Melissa, where I answer your questions about transitioning into or completing a Whole30, successfully sticking to your new healthy habits, and figuring out...
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June 29, 2015, 10:00 am
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  • Socializing and Traveling

Dear Melissa: Where’s the Support in my Whole30 Support Group?

Welcome to Dear Melissa, where I answer your questions about transitioning into or completing a Whole30, successfully sticking to your new healthy habits, and figuring out...
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June 22, 2015, 10:00 am
  • Dear Melissa
  • Troubleshooting

Dear Melissa: Should I Break Up With Fruit?

In this Dear Melissa, we're talking to a woman who is concerned that she's too dependent on fruit during her Whole30. While there is...
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June 8, 2015, 2:26 pm
  • Dear Melissa
  • Kids and Family
  • Whole30 Inspired Eating for the Whole Family

Dear Melissa: I’m Worried About My Grandkids on the Whole30

We're seeing so many families taking on a Whole30 together, kids and all, and we think that's wonderful! However, If you've experienced some less-than-enthusiastic...
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December 29, 2014, 11:00 am
  • Dear Melissa
  • Meal Planning Support and Prep

Dear Melissa: Saving Yourself from Whole30 Mealtime Madness

Welcome to Dear Melissa, where I answer your questions about transitioning into or completing a Whole30, successfully sticking to your new Food Freedom habits, and figuring out...
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December 15, 2014, 11:00 am
  • Dear Melissa
  • Mindset
  • Troubleshooting

Dear Melissa: My Stressful Job is Killing My Whole30

Welcome to Dear Melissa, where I answer your questions about transitioning into or completing a Whole30, successfully sticking to your new Food Freedom habits, and figuring out...